First Date

“Straight talker”

First date is always a soothing to think about for me. I hate the regular first date ideas, I mean what kind of a non creative idiot uses the line – diner and a movie. Come on. Get some thinking going on in your cranial muscle, be creative and be spontaneous. I personally hate the standard “diner and the movie” routine. My personal favorite so far is to ask a girl to wear something comfortable, show up on my bike and take for a spin on some curvy roads. With this adrenalin build up take her one step farther and go bungee jumping or ride a roller coaster and finish it all up with ice cream. I did go soft once and took her to a picnic after the bike ride, it worked out pretty well, i scored.
Here are more of the good ideas that I use and my friends used and found quite “scorefull” if you know what I mean. Take them on a photo shoot, if you have a bad ass camera that is. For this one to work you need a good location that you know and used before. Call them up ask them to dress up (what ever cool outfits they have) and be they personal photographer.
Use some work related connections of friend connections to raise they adrenalin level. If you have a friend that works in miniature racing place, call him up ask for a favor. Bottom line, don’t be the regular champ with “date and a movie” call, be creative and you will score. That’s all for me, keep your wood hard and play it safe.

“Philosopher”
In order for a woman to connect with you they have to spend at least 7 hours in close proximity. This time as well as the quality of this time is an approximation. You obviously do not want to constantly looking at your watch or creating a chart of time spends together. Three to four dates is usually the time it takes a woman to feel comfortable around you and allow the next step to happen. This can be shorten by creating an illusion of spending time together. If you visit multiple places on the same date and make the time “fly” this will create the necessary illusion.
Strong feeling can remove or speed up the necessary time as well.
Strong felling of danger is a perfect example. During a first Golf War the number of sexual encounters between solders increased drastically, the women and men knew that they will be in imminent danger soon enough and the hormones took the better of everybody. I am in no way recommending for you to join the marines or mercenaries in order to get laid but creating a little danger on the first date will improve your chances.

6th month old call

“Straight Talker”

What is up with girls that I have not talked to for the past 6 or 8 month calling me up and asking me all kind of s*@t. I mean the last time we talked was 8 month ago and it was only because I called, and now you are calling me. I mean you did call not to find out what up, or how I am doing, nothing of the sort. You call to ask me how to rent a car, I mean you call me like I am some sort of car renting FAQ’s service. What car company is the best, what car should I rent, can I use a credit card and on and on.

Dammm.

It’s one thing to call me up to see if I am around and what have I done, it’s totally another just to use me up like a champ. Girl you like totally lost respect in my eyes for one thing renting a car is not a rocket science, should be that hard, another is I am not your daddy don’t call me with this s*@t.

“Philosopher”

The women might call you in this situation because she feels that you will be the brother/friend and just like a “Straight Talker” mentioned earlier a father figure. Since the two of you are not romantically involved she starts to view you as a friend. Obviously it all depends on the terms of your separation and what were the last words. “Let’s be friends” is a standard closing phrase on most of the break ups and some do take it for the face value.

This could have been a test of you allege, after break up friendship. This could also be a selfish use of you just because she did no want to seem like a dumb blond to the new man in her life. One optimistic possibility is that she ready does misses you and this is an attempt to reconnect with you and see if you are still available or available again.

Over all this could be turn to your advantage if she is looking to reconnect, of course this depends on whether you want to reconnect as well. The best course of action it is to determine the true purpose of her call and proceed cautiously from that point on. If she will call again after a prolong period of time with the similar idea you need to cut of the communication. Deleting the phone number might work miracles sometimes.