“Straight Talker”
What is up with girls that I have not talked to for the past 6 or 8 month calling me up and asking me all kind of s*@t. I mean the last time we talked was 8 month ago and it was only because I called, and now you are calling me. I mean you did call not to find out what up, or how I am doing, nothing of the sort. You call to ask me how to rent a car, I mean you call me like I am some sort of car renting FAQ’s service. What car company is the best, what car should I rent, can I use a credit card and on and on.
Dammm.
It’s one thing to call me up to see if I am around and what have I done, it’s totally another just to use me up like a champ. Girl you like totally lost respect in my eyes for one thing renting a car is not a rocket science, should be that hard, another is I am not your daddy don’t call me with this s*@t.
“Philosopher”
The women might call you in this situation because she feels that you will be the brother/friend and just like a “Straight Talker” mentioned earlier a father figure. Since the two of you are not romantically involved she starts to view you as a friend. Obviously it all depends on the terms of your separation and what were the last words. “Let’s be friends” is a standard closing phrase on most of the break ups and some do take it for the face value.
This could have been a test of you allege, after break up friendship. This could also be a selfish use of you just because she did no want to seem like a dumb blond to the new man in her life. One optimistic possibility is that she ready does misses you and this is an attempt to reconnect with you and see if you are still available or available again.
Over all this could be turn to your advantage if she is looking to reconnect, of course this depends on whether you want to reconnect as well. The best course of action it is to determine the true purpose of her call and proceed cautiously from that point on. If she will call again after a prolong period of time with the similar idea you need to cut of the communication. Deleting the phone number might work miracles sometimes.
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